So I was talking to an acquaintance the other day and she told me she was having the hardest time dating. The problem she says, is there’s not enough men around her age on the radar. I chuckled and ask her what she meant? She responded by asking if I was dating?

“Not at the moment, but it’s not off the table”, I answered. She proceeded to ask if I had ever tried online dating?
” What a drag, I responded. Yes! It’s not worth the trouble. Dating online in my experience is fake just like a lot of other things online, more like some online friends”.
” Well I think it’s easier for a women our age”, and then she offered to put up my profile.

“No thanks I told her. I’ll take my chances meeting someone out and about.”
“Well…. I’ve been asked on a date, he’s a lot younger than me,” she said.
“By how many years”, I asked?.
“15.” (she then looks at me with a huge smile on her face).
“Girl Please!, And just what are you going to do with him, Change his diaper?
She snickered and told me not to worry, that she is sure to think of something to keep him busy.” Then we parted.

I thought to myself that it is so sad the times we’re living in. If men have not become lovers of themselves. (2:Timothy 3:2).Don’t get me wrong, there is equal opportunity in the dating game, however, Back in my day when men were really men, you never had to think twice about being single for any length of time.
Now days you could go a year without even being asked out because the men are waiting for you to ask them out.! Yeah….I said it! That is just vain! And you don’t get to call out the feminist movement either. He… He…He that finds a wife, a girlfriend, A lady….shall I go on!

He that finds a wife, finds a good thing, and receives favor from the Lord, Proverbs{18:22) These men today don’t want favor.
Do you hear me? They don’t want it! When you meet them you’ve got to have your own house, your own job, your own bank account, your own car, your own pension, and the list goes on. Ladies, if you have to chase him….he’s not for you…..As you were.

VPJ (c)2017

About The Voice

Veronica is an Author, Artist, Social Media Evangelist, and Educator of children. Her love and passion for teaching has allowed her the opportunity to work with children from all walks of life. Veronica is also active in serving her community having served the women of "My Sister's House", in Atlanta. She is an Inspirational Blogger and Speaker. Thank you for your visit! For more about Veronica click links below, follow on The voice@veronicamot
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