If you are out on a date with a man who has a roving eye, please know that he is showing you who he is right then and there. If he is showing you on the first date that he cannot focus on you and make you feel like you are the only woman in the room after he has asked you out, know that it is a sign that this man is not one of loyalty, and as soon as you turn your back he will be chasing another skirt.

I am not saying that people cannot change. It is up to you to take the chance on love, but trust me…..this behavior does not change overnight and you will undoubtedly suffer much heartache because of it. Never allow your impatience or insecurities to undermine the person you are, or the plans that God has for you. When the right man comes along he will make you feel everything you need to secure your emotions.

You are not in an exclusive relationship just because you are on a date. You do not have to allow him to sabotage your enjoyment. If he is revealing himself on your date, let him. My suggestion would be to pretend you are in a movie theater and watch closely. Nine times out of ten if you say nothing, the film will keep rolling and he will think you’re down with his behavior while letting it all hang out!

About The Voice

Veronica is an Author, Artist, Social Media Evangelist, and Educator of children. Her love and passion for teaching has allowed her the opportunity to work with children from all walks of life. Veronica is also active in serving her community having served the women of "My Sister's House", in Atlanta. She is an Inspirational Blogger and Speaker. Thank you for your visit! For more about Veronica click links below, follow on The voice@veronicamot
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